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    The “color of money” 25 years later. Here is what I learned.

    March 30, 20226 Mins Read
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    I learned how to manage my money with my grandmother Big Mama.

    She was extremely frugal. I like to joke that she was so tight with money that if she held a penny, Lincoln would scream.

    My grandmother is the reason I became a homeowner in my early twenties. I only rented a year before buying a two bedroom, one bath condominium in Baltimore.

    During the time I was renting an apartment, every phone call with Big Mama started with this question: “Are you still giving your money to the white man?” »

    All. Only. Call. Call. For one year.

    Big Mama’s Financial Lessons

    For 25 years that I write the Silver color columnit is much of Big Mama’s wisdom on personal finance principles that I have passed on to readers.

    My first column was published on March 30, 1997. The title was: My Grandmother’s Saving Grace.

    I wrote then: “My grandmother was an example of the fundamental financial principles of the older generation of African Americans. These conservative, hard-bitten practices helped bring my generation of middle-class black people to where we are today.

    My grandmother wasn’t always right – it’s normal to leaseand you actually get what you pay for: a roof over your head.

    Sometimes renting your roof is better than owning it

    Big Mama didn’t teach me to invest because she was too afraid of the stock market. The only bond she had was the bonding adhesive for her dentures. I am ready for retirement because I did not listen to my grandmother’s advice and consulted a financial adviser who pushed me to invest in mutual funds.

    Over the years people have wondered about the origin of the column title. I was asked if I wanted to write a column just for black households.

    From the outset, I wanted to explore the financial planning issues facing African Americans – and I have done so over the years, including in my prime 2020 Sincerely, Michelle Series. But, as I said in this inaugural columnthe color of money is for “anyone who realizes that no matter who you are, the color of money is always the same”.

    Washington Post personal finance columnist Michelle Singletary describes what to look for when hiring a financial advisor and when you should use one. (Video: Amber Ferguson/The Washington Post)

    I was a bit naive when I started writing the column, not fully realizing that not everyone had the for the benefit of a Big Mama. I couldn’t understand how people with enough money could so easily mishandle it or do monumentally bad financial decisions.

    The Netflix series asks couples with up to $35,000 saved up: ‘Marriage or Mortgage’? You know where I stand.

    Sometimes I was too severe, too critical. However, the more I talked to people, spending time not only reviewing their budgets and bank accounts, but learning about their financial backgrounds, the better I understood their motivations for the money moves they were making. With experience, I understood the depth of their financial fears. This money story can be intimidating.

    I also realized that financial missteps are often rooted in childhood trauma or, in many cases, being spoiled too much.

    I studied behavioral economics, which made my advice more practical and reasonable. Because people are human, what works on paper doesn’t always work in practice. When it comes to money, many people are prone to irrational behavior.

    Okay, you make money mistakes. Here’s why.

    Of course, it may make more sense to pay off the debts with the higher interest rate. But, behaviorally, when people pay off small debts firstthey experience immediate triumph, and this may inspire them to become aggressive in getting rid of the rest of their debt.

    I no longer underestimate the power of marketing, which conditions Americans to be consumers. Masterful marketing campaigns encourage overspending and debt accumulation.

    “Saturday Night Live” had a hilarious skit in 2020 about sentimental car commercials. You know those where a spouse is surprised by a new car.

    The SNL sketch begins with a father, mother, and teenage son sitting around a Christmas tree.

    “Hey, Matt, I think there might be another present for your mom,” the dad said.

    Then the voiceover says, “It hasn’t been a normal year. So this Christmas, treat her to something extraordinary at the Lexus “December to Remember” sales event.

    They all come out to see a white Lexus with a red bow in the driveway.

    “Did you seriously buy a car without asking me?” the woman said incredulously.

    I love this sketch because if you buy a new car without discussing it with your significant other, it’s not a gift. It is a 60 month financial obligation. Such a large purchase should be a joint decision.

    My debt hate has been a recurring theme in my column because far too many people don’t consider the long-term consequences of debt. Yet I often get pushback from people who think there is “good debt” and “bad debt”.

    A column with the title, “Yes, all debts are bad debts”, led to a discussion with Jared Bernstein, now a member of the White House Council of Economic Advisers.

    Debt: Hit her or hug her? My debate with Michelle Singletary.

    “I’d bet there aren’t many more dedicated fans of this paper’s personal finance editor, Michelle Singletary, than yours,” Bernstein wrote in a post. Chronicle 2017. “It’s a consumer protection office that walks, talks and is vigilant, although to be clear, it’s not letting you off the hook either. I don’t just read it. I read it to my children. But there’s something we don’t agree on, and that’s debt.

    Bernstein and I had a debate in his column. He argued that there is big debt, good debt and bad debt.

    “She thinks it stinks. Wants to slam the debt around. If the debt crossed the street, it would crush it. I disagree,” he wrote. “Big debt increases your earning power so you can pay it off and have extra money later to safely take on a good debt.”

    I replied, “In theory, some loans make sense. Without a mortgage, most Americans couldn’t afford to buy a home, which for many households ends up being their greatest asset. I agree that business loans have helped people follow their passions and start small businesses. But what we need in the United States is not more debt support, but more caution.

    Are you plagued by serial debt disorder?

    I learned my debt hatred from my grandmother. She despised debt.

    Big Mama died at 82, two years after my first column. I still hear his voice in my head, lecture on debt avoidance as much as possible, save moreand spend less. She was and still is my muse of writing, and I miss her very much.

    As I celebrate 25 years of the privilege of writing a personal finance column for The Washington Post, my grandmother continues to be the inspiration for my advice and my mission to do what she did for me: model and encourage good money management, maintain a healthy dose of skepticism and help those less fortunate.

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